Monthly Archives: March 2018

Winter BDSM

It’s cold outside, going out does not always seem like a good idea and; “bracing oneself” for an exit outside, wearing leather for the first time this year, multi layers of latex, thick fluffy materials, traffic at a stand still, tissue and runny noses (not so sexy), are all part of the equation … but thankfully, Spring is near!

For those of us with a sociable kinky persuasion, Winter is not always the best of times. However, this is what Mistress thinks is great about this time of year …

Gorgeous Winter layers of velvets, silks, lace, fur, heavier leathers and latex, more layers to peel away, more sumptuous fabrics. Coming in from the cold, a good slave that knows when to heat a fine bowl of soup, naughty taking off the layers in comfort ahh! Crackling fires, being snowed in ;) rich foods, longer play under cover of darkness, time to think about new experiences to explore, staying in to watch naughty films.

Immediate shifts in hot and cold, kinky ways to use snow, wet and dry, comfort and discomfort, the subtle changes in light and dark. How does one appreciate kinky play with heat, if one has not felt the cold!? It is a time to explore sensitivity, hard and soft, free and bound, tension and relaxation etc … a heightening of the the senses.

Winter is about rediscovering kinkiness. This is a plus! Perhaps a fantasy or kink is becoming stale or boring so; place a different slant on the “norm”, add something or take something away, think outside of, take a risk. Mistress loves our colder months, they are a perfect time to lay foundations for new fun experiences and growth.

So, Spring is in the air, the fetish scene starts to reconnect and it is time to think about kinky endeavours ahead, a further awakening of the senses.

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