Category: Fetish Clubs

Winter BDSM

It’s cold outside, going out does not always seem like a good idea and; “bracing oneself” for an exit outside, wearing leather for the first time this year, multi layers of latex, thick fluffy materials, traffic at a stand still, tissue and runny noses (not so sexy), are all part of the equation … but thankfully, Spring is near!

For those of us with a sociable kinky persuasion, Winter is not always the best of times. However, this is what Mistress thinks is great about this time of year …

Gorgeous Winter layers of velvets, silks, lace, fur, heavier leathers and latex, more layers to peel away, more sumptuous fabrics. Coming in from the cold, a good slave that knows when to heat a fine bowl of soup, naughty taking off the layers in comfort ahh! Crackling fires, being snowed in ;) rich foods, longer play under cover of darkness, time to think about new experiences to explore, staying in to watch naughty films.

Immediate shifts in hot and cold, kinky ways to use snow, wet and dry, comfort and discomfort, the subtle changes in light and dark. How does one appreciate kinky play with heat, if one has not felt the cold!? It is a time to explore sensitivity, hard and soft, free and bound, tension and relaxation etc … a heightening of the the senses.

Winter is about rediscovering kinkiness. This is a plus! Perhaps a fantasy or kink is becoming stale or boring so; place a different slant on the “norm”, add something or take something away, think outside of, take a risk. Mistress loves our colder months, they are a perfect time to lay foundations for new fun experiences and growth.

So, Spring is in the air, the fetish scene starts to reconnect and it is time to think about kinky endeavours ahead, a further awakening of the senses.

Fetish Scene Munch

Clubs can be expensive to run, smaller groups in the Fetish Scene have started up. Munches are a way of connecting to other like minds during the day and evening in smaller more pe gatherings. The beauty of Munches is that they can be held almost anywhere. Ten or so years back, there were perhaps four Munches a month, now, it has grown to approximately twenty two. Often Munches have specific names to encourage certain types of kinksters on the Fetish Scene to go along, they are more intimate, a good place for any newcomer to start their journey onto the Scene. If you do not feel immediately welcomed, it may not be the group for you, there are many to try, go find the best one for you.

There is often a greeter to help you settle in,  Munches are supposed to be friendly, a relaxed atmosphere, any dress code, so your vanilla civvies are fine, they are places to catch up with friends, learn, have fun… sometimes a lot more fun. If you pop along to a Munch, maybe shy, ask who the person is who runs it and they will point you in the right direction. Very soon you will wonder why you were so nervous. People who meet are from every walk of life, yes, that means all walks of life, not the ‘dirty old men’  lusting over anyone walking through the door ridiculous fore thought some people have.

If it is a general public space (pub, shopping Mall), how do you know who they are? Contact the organisers first, or look for a large group, anyone that may be in a bit of rubber or leather or looks a bit unusual, perhaps wearing black but, not always. Use common sense, don’t go blurting out “are you one of the kinky group” out loud to anyone and everyone.

There is a caveat. There are quite a few munches lead by Prodommes who organise Munches to attract potential clients, these Munches are different, do not get the two confused unless you want to meet a Prodomme. To confuse matters, there are Mistresses who have started up Munches with good intentions, they are Munches to introduce yourself. A Munch MAY ask for a small fee but, it is not the norm. The Munches that ask for a small entrance fee £5.00 or less, usually ask because the Munch has become highly popular and the organisers have had to find a larger, better space to cater for the particular crowd they attract which is normal. You may have to join a Facebook page but, should not have to join anything apart from following them on social media to go to a Munch. It is common sense, like anything on the internet. Do not let this put you off, there are great Munches out there. For obvious reasons, some Munches in smaller towns prefer to be discreet.

Here are some of the Munches around:

Tap the Munch you are interested in.

The London Munch

Docklands Munch

Putney Munch

Camden Crunch

Geek Munch

Here are some area Munches that are or have been around:

East London Munch

Kilburn Munch

London Rope Munch

Fetish Scene Munches, Camden Crunch Fetish Scene Munches, Camden Crunch

W. Sussex Munch

Cardiff Munch

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There are a few others but, this gives you an idea of how well spread Munches can be and are. Some Munches started with gusto but, the organiser could not continue for whatever reason. I wish you happy journey’s and the knowledge that, wherever you are, there are kinksters near you.









Rubber cult Again

As I was Dungeoneer along side Master Kavannagh at the last Rubber Cult, here is my review.

The costumes and latex were fabulous, though only three items of equipment in the small dungeon area. A frame, cross and whipping bench. I still had fun and had a few interested partakers of the cane and flogger.  I kept it light,which is not in my nature, though some still enjoyed the unexpected.

Enjoy dressing in latex and love looking good, this is a great club for you! Kudos to Kim and Cynth, who put a lot of time and scene logistics into it and were busy behind the scenes to make it work smoothly.

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I great club with Medical Rubberist’s in mind, the theme is psycho crazy (need to be locked up) lovers, thanks to Kim Club-Rub and Cynthia Icorn.

What to expect at Psychoward at the Resistance Gallery?


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2013-01-27 03.22.30As I’ve been ‘away’ for a few months, I have to mention The Gate again. A few days ago someone phoned me that enjoyed his experience there so much (I was a participant ;)), he wanted a place to have his birthday. He asked for intimate, somewhere he could really enjoy his personal fetish, with no judgement. Also, a place he could kinda ‘do what he really wanted’, in a nice friendly enviroment with lots of people, but not too many, if you get my jist. I first thought, The Gate Club. I haven’t been able to go along for a while because my new driver had certain things to tend to at the time.

He also asked about Domina Parties. Now, I couldn’t really tell him much and told him so. All I understand from those that have been, is that it is a much smaller affair, but great for those looking to ‘spend’ on an very intimate affair as such. It really depends on what someone is looking for. The Gate is a nice inbetween a club and a smaller affair, without being too much, more people, but then, if you want alot more, it’s very much there too.

I also want to mention the late Mistress Demonic, who helped to make this club what it is. Its always been more than fun, and give it a try! You will never smile sooo much! I always have ! :)

I will be at the next Gate party… mwah ha ha…


Happy Kinky Christmas!

It’s been all go! Plenty of kinky naughtiness to get up to. I’ve loved my pressies and birthday wishes from fellow kinksters and of course my lowly slaves, maids and fetishists. No, I didn’t wait for xmas day, I like a good run up of treats before the 25th!

I shall be at AntiChrists New Year party, always something of a kinky tradtion, on the 3rd of Jan, then pop into Season’s torments at The Purple Turtle, 28th Dec, in Camden. They have an open door policy… bloomin marvelous! This is all part of ‘Sweet Torments’ London Munch, now celebrating its 15th year! I think it will turn out to be very busy indeed, and it’s local! Still wondering about going to Toppers on the 29th, that all depends on what pervy play I get up to the night before at Season’s Torments and whether I will have ‘finished’ freeing my victims in time.

One new member of my household is Henry the pug. I’m used to dealing with puppies and doggies of all shapes and sizes. It is still most amusing when telling folk I have a new dog and they respond with hardly batting an eyelid. I then explain this one is not human, it’s actually a dog… only then does the surprise hit. It seems people that know me expect the twisted ‘obvious’, this is what happens in my world of kink!  ;-)

A marvelous kinky, naughty Xmas to all, and a very pervy New Year!!


Kinky Halloween

I have been busy this Halloween spreading my kinky ‘hell’, it would have been marvellous to go trick or treating, dressed as I usually do (corsets, stockings, some leopard print, heels, feathers, fur, flogger in hand), scaring the neighbours. Big, bad anal fistings for the ‘tricksters’ and ‘treats’ of latex goodies, shoes and medical equipment, that would be my kind of Halloween!

However, I had the scene to turn to in my dark sadistic frame of mind, that kept me going quite nicely. Including more photoshoots and naughty filming to keep me happy.

Torture Garden held a full on two nighter! 1st and 2nd Nov at The Coronet, who needs sleep anyway when there’s twisted fun to be had?! Then it was really choices, choices, AntiChrist held a pirates v zombies affair at the Colosseum. Well, the sensible option was TG on the 2nd and AC on the 1st! The best of both worlds, and I’m still standing after it all!

What’s coming up? I have to mention Club Subversions birthday party on the 9th Nov at Protocol SW8 and of course, kinky shopping at London Alternative Market 3rd Nov and The London Fetish Fair 10th Nov! I always need more silky stocings and those marvellous electro-stim devices I must have… oh, and that leather coat.. and…and… ;-)

Rubber Cult 2

Tonight I’m getting fully rubbered up for the second ever Rubber Cult! A hugely positive response after the first night, it has sold out! It will be a great social full rubber dress occasion with lots of pervery inbetween. Now… I’m off to get ready!

Dungeon Rental & Kinky Plans

It’s been a busy January with plenty to do. Mistress has had a great time at some of My usual fetish clubs and fairs, but there’s plenty to come!

I shall be enjoying Club Toppers on the 8th Feb followed by Subversion‘s Violent Valentines 9th Feb. This month I’m off to Club Pedestal on the 25th Jan and one fun ‘winter warmer’ at The Gate 26th Jan!

Some great photos have also come out of My Anti-Christ performance in December and there are afew more stage antics up my sleeve.

It has also been time to make extra sure everything is in tip top working order for my Dungeon Rental site. It’s true, I shall soon be renting my superb facilities to Dommes, couples and fellow kinksters. Watch this space for more news about the new dungeon rental site and all there is to offer. What better to have a medical specialist on hand, should you wish to further the edgier side of your play …

A Happy Medical New Year

A Happy New Year to all my fellow perves! Here’s to a marvellous, deviant 2013!

I’ve had a great build up to the end of the year. My AntiChrist performance ‘Mistress Olivia’s Medical Vomitorium’ couldn’t have gone any better! My mental asylum patients endured catheterisation, forced feeding with piss, 8 gauge flesh hooks, vomit, strangulation with intestines, fisting…. well, let’s just say plenty of twisted behaivour! The audience feed back was fabulous…..

“Completely mesmerised”

“You are inspirational, amazing to see something so new on stage ”

“People couldn’t watch in certain places”

“Deeply intense”

“I can see how much you really love what you do… so sick!”

“What a mind fuck!”

From the moment my slaves had to attach one of my gynaecological benches to the roof rack of my drivers car (see photo), to the time my head finally hit the pillow, I enjoyed every moment! There will be plenty of performance piccies to come.

My birthday concluded with a great night at Torture Garden as I danced, pierced and flogged the night away, followed by seeing the New Year in with some of my slaves the next day.

Plans are afoot for filming and more naughty behaivour 2013, so watch this space!