Winter BDSM
It’s cold outside, going out does not always seem like a good idea and; “bracing oneself” for an exit outside, wearing leather for the first time this year, multi layers of latex, thick fluffy materials, traffic at a stand still, tissue and runny noses (not so sexy), are all part of the equation … but thankfully, Spring is near!
For those of us with a sociable kinky persuasion, Winter is not always the best of times. However, this is what Mistress thinks is great about this time of year …
Gorgeous Winter layers of velvets, silks, lace, fur, heavier leathers and latex, more layers to peel away, more sumptuous fabrics. Coming in from the cold, a good slave that knows when to heat a fine bowl of soup, naughty taking off the layers in comfort ahh! Crackling fires, being snowed in 
rich foods, longer play under cover of darkness, time to think about new experiences to explore, staying in to watch naughty films.
Immediate shifts in hot and cold, kinky ways to use snow, wet and dry, comfort and discomfort, the subtle changes in light and dark. How does one appreciate kinky play with heat, if one has not felt the cold!? It is a time to explore sensitivity, hard and soft, free and bound, tension and relaxation etc … a heightening of the the senses.
Winter is about rediscovering kinkiness. This is a plus! Perhaps a fantasy or kink is becoming stale or boring so; place a different slant on the “norm”, add something or take something away, think outside of, take a risk. Mistress loves our colder months, they are a perfect time to lay foundations for new fun experiences and growth.
So, Spring is in the air, the fetish scene starts to reconnect and it is time to think about kinky endeavours ahead, a further awakening of the senses.
Fetish Scene Munch
Clubs can be expensive to run, smaller groups in the Fetish Scene have started up. Munches are a way of connecting to other like minds during the day and evening in smaller more pe gatherings. The beauty of Munches is that they can be held almost anywhere. Ten or so years back, there were perhaps four Munches a month, now, it has grown to approximately twenty two. Often Munches have specific names to encourage certain types of kinksters on the Fetish Scene to go along, they are more intimate, a good place for any newcomer to start their journey onto the Scene. If you do not feel immediately welcomed, it may not be the group for you, there are many to try, go find the best one for you.
There is often a greeter to help you settle in, Munches are supposed to be friendly, a relaxed atmosphere, any dress code, so your vanilla civvies are fine, they are places to catch up with friends, learn, have fun… sometimes a lot more fun. If you pop along to a Munch, maybe shy, ask who the person is who runs it and they will point you in the right direction. Very soon you will wonder why you were so nervous. People who meet are from every walk of life, yes, that means all walks of life, not the ‘dirty old men’ lusting over anyone walking through the door ridiculous fore thought some people have.
If it is a general public space (pub, shopping Mall), how do you know who they are? Contact the organisers first, or look for a large group, anyone that may be in a bit of rubber or leather or looks a bit unusual, perhaps wearing black but, not always. Use common sense, don’t go blurting out “are you one of the kinky group” out loud to anyone and everyone.
There is a caveat. There are quite a few munches lead by Prodommes who organise Munches to attract potential clients, these Munches are different, do not get the two confused unless you want to meet a Prodomme. To confuse matters, there are Mistresses who have started up Munches with good intentions, they are Munches to introduce yourself. A Munch MAY ask for a small fee but, it is not the norm. The Munches that ask for a small entrance fee £5.00 or less, usually ask because the Munch has become highly popular and the organisers have had to find a larger, better space to cater for the particular crowd they attract which is normal. You may have to join a Facebook page but, should not have to join anything apart from following them on social media to go to a Munch. It is common sense, like anything on the internet. Do not let this put you off, there are great Munches out there. For obvious reasons, some Munches in smaller towns prefer to be discreet.
Here are some of the Munches around:
Tap the Munch you are interested in.
Here are some area Munches that are or have been around:
East London Munch
Kilburn Munch
London Rope Munch
Fetish Scene Munches, Camden CrunchW. Sussex Munch
Cardiff Munch
Find a munch **
York
Preston
St Leonards
Liverpool
Glasgow
Sunderland
Bolton
Aberdeen
Bristol
Exeter
Manchester
Torbay
Fenland
Reading
Birmingham
Brighton
Preston
Bolton
Carmarthen
Leicester
Leeds
Oxford
Colchester
Plymouth
Norwich
South Yorkshire
Nottingham
Derby
Salisbury
Bournemouth
Bath
Dundee
There are a few others but, this gives you an idea of how well spread Munches can be and are. Some Munches started with gusto but, the organiser could not continue for whatever reason. I wish you happy journey’s and the knowledge that, wherever you are, there are kinksters near you.
Rubber cult Again
As I was Dungeoneer along side Master Kavannagh at the last Rubber Cult, here is my review.
The costumes and latex were fabulous, though only three items of equipment in the small dungeon area. A frame, cross and whipping bench. I still had fun and had a few interested partakers of the cane and flogger. I kept it light,which is not in my nature, though some still enjoyed the unexpected.
Enjoy dressing in latex and love looking good, this is a great club for you! Kudos to Kim and Cynth, who put a lot of time and scene logistics into it and were busy behind the scenes to make it work smoothly.
Rubber CultTHE GATE
As I’ve been ‘away’ for a few months, I have to mention The Gate again. A few days ago someone phoned me that enjoyed his experience there so much (I was a participant ;)), he wanted a place to have his birthday. He asked for intimate, somewhere he could really enjoy his personal fetish, with no judgement. Also, a place he could kinda ‘do what he really wanted’, in a nice friendly enviroment with lots of people, but not too many, if you get my jist. I first thought, The Gate Club. I haven’t been able to go along for a while because my new driver had certain things to tend to at the time.
He also asked about Domina Parties. Now, I couldn’t really tell him much and told him so. All I understand from those that have been, is that it is a much smaller affair, but great for those looking to ‘spend’ on an very intimate affair as such. It really depends on what someone is looking for. The Gate is a nice inbetween a club and a smaller affair, without being too much, more people, but then, if you want alot more, it’s very much there too.
I also want to mention the late Mistress Demonic, who helped to make this club what it is. Its always been more than fun, and give it a try! You will never smile sooo much! I always have ! 
I will be at the next Gate party… mwah ha ha…
A Happy Medical New Year
A Happy New Year to all my fellow perves! Here’s to a marvellous, deviant 2013!
I’ve had a great build up to the end of the year. My AntiChrist performance ‘Mistress 
Olivia’s Medical Vomitorium’ couldn’t have gone any better! My mental asylum patients endured catheterisation, forced feeding with piss, 8 gauge flesh hooks, vomit, strangulation with intestines, fisting…. well, let’s just say plenty of twisted behaivour! The audience feed back was fabulous…..
“Completely mesmerised”
“You are inspirational, amazing to see something so new on stage ”
“People couldn’t watch in certain places”
“Deeply intense”
“I can see how much you really love what you do… so sick!”
“What a mind fuck!”
From the moment my slaves had to attach one of my gynaecological benches to the roof rack of my drivers car (see photo), to the time my head finally hit the pillow, I enjoyed every moment! There will be plenty of performance piccies to come.
My birthday concluded with a great night at Torture Garden as I danced, pierced and flogged the night away, followed by seeing the New Year in with some of my slaves the next day.
Plans are afoot for filming and more naughty behaivour 2013, so watch this space!
Naughty behaivour: The Gate Club
It did not take long to travel to Kent, where the last Gate Club was being 
held, and what a marvellous evening, night and morning of pervery it was too! I owe many thank’s to Mistress Demonic and Master Keith for putting on a great party. The atmosphere was intimate, respectful and very kinky indeed!
The Gate has been around for many years, and is known to be for fetish folk with plenty of play in mind, and the night certainly delivered. It wasn’t long before 
myself and Goddess Cleo were enjoying ourselves at the expense of our slaves… and we brought a whole new meaning to the term ‘double fisting’. When I finally left, it was a shock to realise, I had been constantly playing and socialising until 10.30am the next morning. It was walking into the bright daylight after a dark dungeon experience that really brought it home… this had been a great evening, night and morning indeed!
It’s party season, and The Gate are holding their next event for Xmas, at The Flying Dutchman. It’s down in my diary, December 22nd, so don’t miss Santa’s Spanking Christmas!
Camden Crunching
It’s been a very full weekend! I decided to venture to The Camden Crunch for the first time. Definately a fun night out, somewhere between an ordinary Fetish Munch and a club night. There was no dungeon, but that wasn’t the point. It was a great social though yes, 
Mistress had a good play with a rather nice female sub that ‘Mister Grey’ a wonderful male Dom and friend had found. It was great to catch up with folk on the scene who took up most of the bar, amongst some of the vanilla peeps who had obviously wandered in for a drink and were looking on in amazement at ‘the activities’ of this rubber dressed/corseted fetish crowd, funny indeed!
On to Club Rub on the saturday night, a uniformed theme, I wore a nice military rubber number. Great to catch up and do some Domina gossip, but for the most part I was trying out a new slave girl. Sadly, I’m not too sure about this one, she has alot to do to prove herself worth my time and efforts.
All a good, fun weekend of kinky fun and games, Sunday was certainly the more relaxing day… a fair few hours of constant foot worship, bliss!